Putting It All Together

Here is a summary of the important facts and information related to alcohol problems.

• Family and friends are not responsible for the drinking of a loved one, but they can provide valuable support to help the person deal with his or her alcohol problem.

• About 50 percent of American adults have been affected by alcohol abuse or dependence in their family.

• People are considered to have an alcohol problem when their alcohol use has a negative effect on their life. The type of alcohol used, how much, and for how long are also factors.

• Family and friends must deal with any denial they may have about the drinker’s problem. If they stop protecting themselves, the drinker and others from the problem, the drinker then has to face the consequences of his or her behavior and may become more motivated to get help.

• Do not wait to help until the person who drinks too much brings up the problem or hits bottom. The earlier the drinker gets help, the better the chance of successful recovery.

• Provide support in helping the person with an alcohol problem accept his or her problem, seek treatment, go through treatment, and avoid relapse.

• Take care of yourself while you help the drinker.